How can we achieve this end of the year feeling satisfied (not complaining) about not having a partner, about being alone and not feeling the same next year?
During this time of the year I hear this… Another end of the year alone! I can’t believe that even though I tried, in the end the relationship didn’t work; even though I tried, but he…complains…and here I am alone again.
I think that, first you have reasons for not having that partner you want so much but maybe you don’t or you’re not aware of it.
Your beliefs in relation to how we perceive the end of the year and what we “should” have or be put pressure on you and contribute to the feeling of self-criticism or that something is not working in my life and when January comes we continue our routine and with our life with the unconscious belief about why we don’t have the love, the partner, the desired companion and then the new year comes again and we renew the same belief.
It’s like we are innocent of such injustice!
It looks complicated but it is simple and understandable if we want to do justice to ourselves and what we want.
Here I give you some steps to not feel like this next year,
-Take a brief look at the last year and your attempts or the attempts of the other person to be in a relationship with you and BE IN GRATITUDE for everything that happened and did not happen with that person.
-Whatever you have experienced was not a coincidence or a waste of time, life is perfect in its predestination, what is a waste of time is refusing to accept what you have experienced as a valid experience to… an important word in love and relationships… “GROW.” This will lead you to attract people more aligned with you and with themselves because you are there too.
-Accept all the emotions and feelings that come to you when you relive in your mind those relationships and attempts at relationships without criticizing yourself or the other person, that is, do this practice in neutral as if you were watching a movie.
Gratitude and acceptance will move you from the complaint that obstructs what you want, clearing the unconscious imprinting that you repeat about love and the couple, thus, you clean that cassette or hard drive or in your memory and give space to desire without sabotaging yourself with old or negative memories what you really want since your memory is free of similar stories that do not give rise to what you really want.
Gratitude and acceptance reconcile you with what you call “I am alone” with “I am with myself in acceptance of my present so as not to obstruct what must come to me.”
In this way you will be clearer and ready to take on your year-ends in a different way, much more aligned with what you want or definitely with what you want.
Hugs
